Numerology and Marriage

Numerology and Marriage

                              Marriage is one of the most sacred and oldest institutions known to man. In order to make a marriage last both partners need to be understanding and considerate of one another. Of course joy, harmony and love are also key components for a successful union. However, the determining the date for your wedding is just as important. Many are aware that the divorce rate and the number of separations are increasing.

Marriage is an important event in one’s life. It can also be said as the transition stage of a person. So much of importance is given for marriage, as a wrong wed-lock can become deadlock!. Hence thorough planning and research has to be done while choosing a marriage date. 

Late marriage or no marriage

In numerology, it is observed that the presence of numbers 8,3,6 and 9 in a birthdate indicates difficulties in getting married. In this case you have to arrive at the single digit in the date, the month and the year of birth. I give below some dates and their digits which will clarify what I say.

BIRTH  DATE                SINGLE DIGITS

 27-6-1958                          9-6-5 

19-6-1956                         1-6-3

17-3-1923                         8-3-6

08-07-1952                       8-7-8

You will find that in the above birth dates, there is a combination of numbers 8,3,6 and 9.These numbers may occur in any serial, at least two of these three numbers are present in the birth date. At some places, the number 8 shows delays in marriage. Even after marriage, some marital problems are observed. The above observations are found in nearly 60% to 70% cases.

Marriage & Martial Problems

Now I shall explain you about 4,5,8 dates of marriage, as these dates are not good for marriage.

1) Those who marry on 4th, 13th, 22nd and 31^st or the sum total of their marriage date, means, date ,month and the year, when it comes number 4, they will face financial problems throughout their lives. Then such couple will fight with each other just on financial disturbances and many of them get separated. In a nut shell, number 4 of the marriage date creates financial problems and leads to separation. 

2) 5th as marriage date: those who marry on 5th, 14th and 23rd or when the total of marriage date comes to number 5 ,then the couple gets separated by misunderstanding, egoistic arguments, and finally get divorced.

3) Coming to 8th as marriage date or 17th or 26th or when the total marriage date comes to no. 8 then the separation time, 1 in 8 years from the date of marriage and such separation will be horrible, means wife gets mental & physical torture ,food poisoning and separation by death of the partners and sometimes both.

Initially this information was based on only 4,5,8 dates. Later it was observed even the total marriage date is also effective and another point of observation on deep research, is that these 4, 5,8 are not auspicious dates, each number has its own style of separation as I mentioned above. (Ref:MGK Research foundation)

However I have observed that if the date of marriage is 4,13,22,31,5,14,23 or 8,17,26 and the sum total of marriage date, means, date ,month and the year, when it comes number 4, 5 or 8 then the intensity of above readings increases.

               From my experience, people who had their partner in harmony with their birth number had a loving marriage. If the vibrations were bad, the marriage was bad. So I suggest marrying a partner with harmonious numbers and also avoid above mentioned date for marriage.

Following are the guidelines for Happy Married life:-

BirthNumber 1 (born on dates like 1, 10, 19, or 28 your No. Is 1.)  

1. You are always predisposed to marriage and you are fond of your helpmate provided he is also of equal enthusiasm and has a love of beauty and of dress, at home and in public.

2. It is, however, often seen that you hardly get a companion of your choice, with the result that you are often disappointed in your married life
.

3. You will be attracted towards intellectual types and yet because of the intellectual bias, there can be an absence of passion and warmth which, despite your own intellectual conception of affairs, you will desire.  Hence it will be somewhat difficult to bring about desired developments. 

 4. The marriage partner can be contacted whilst on a journey or as a result of attending a lecture of a d 5.You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 21st July and 20th August, between 21st November and 20th December and between 21st March and 20th April.  It is therefore advisable that you select your marriage partner from their period. 

5. You also have an affinity for those who are governed by numbers 1, 4, 5, 7 and their corresponding multiples. 

6. If your Birth No. Is 1, it is better for you not to marry anyone who also has his or her Birth No. as 1. Why? Both of you will try to dominate each other and you will end up with quarrels, misunderstandings and fights. Born with Birth No. 1 you consider yourself superior to others. You do not respect their opinions. When a husband and wife have this mentality how can you co exists? You will dislike each other and your marriage will fail.

7.As per numerology No. 4 person will make an ideal match for No. 1. If No. 1 is like a magnet, No. 4 will be like iron. The 4 person will obey all the commands of No. 1 person. He or she will never forsake you.

 8. Persons with Birth No. 8 will make an ideal match for you.  Persons with 8 have a great affinity for the No. 1 borns. They will make any sacrifice for you unhesitatingly. As per numerology and marriage, the 8 persons will have true love for you. They will exhibit their love openly. So if you are born with Birth No. 1, you are lucky to marry anyone who has his or her Birth Number as 8.

9. As per marriage numerology, your next choice will be those born with 3, 5, or 6. You can marry them. and also expect a normal married life. But remember, there will be no true love between you and your wife. As per numerology and marriage, If you are a woman, there will be no true love between you and your husband.  Persons with such numbers only go astray and become victims of extra marital relationships.

10.As per marriage numerology, if with 1, you are forced to marry one with 7 or 9, your marital life will not be happy. The 7 persons will cause financial failures. They will not make ideal husbands or wifes. You will invite troubles.

11.As per, Numerology the 7 persons will make you face court cases, separation, or divorce. The 9 persons will not suit you as a husband or wife .They will be good only for those who have birth number 3, 6, or 9.

Birth Number 1 as husband

1. You have a kind and loving disposition and a loving heart.

2. You are generous and desire your wife to shine in society. 

3. You want your family members to dance to your tune, and you will not tolerate disrespect. 

Birth Number 1 as wife.

1. You are aristocratic by temperament and attract people to your home and command great respect. 

2. You need a virile husband who can offer the romantic outlets that your passionate nature requires.

 Birth Number 2 (born on dates like 2, 11, 20, or 29 your No. Is 2.) 

1. As a number 2 person, you are somewhat cold and do not have the fire of passion. Sometimes you may select a partner who is either far older or younger than yourself.

2. You will use quite a deal of discrimination in matters to do with the affection and marital side of life.

 3. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 21st October and 20th November and between 19th February and 20the March.  It is, therefore, advisable that you select your marriage partner from this period.  You also have an affinity for those who are governed by numbers 2, 4, and 6.

4.  Numerology advises you that if you are born on a date of 2, any one born on a date of 7 will be your ideal match.  There is a mutual attraction between the Birth No. 2 persons and the Birth No. 7 persons. You are most lucky if you can marry a person with Birth No. 7. Because those born on dates of 7 will adore you and worship you. Your marriage will be highly successful. You will have good kids and you will be rich.

5. if your Birth No. is 2, you can marry persons born with Birth No. 3 or 6.  They will support you to come up in your life. You can have a happy married life with good children.  However you have to be careful with women born on dates of 6, 15, and 24. If your spouse is a woman she will be attracted to rich persons other than you and she may go away from you.

6. Numerology recommends marriage with persons of 4 and 8 for those with Birth No. 2. These persons may not make ideal couples like those of 2 & 7. They will not be as happy as the 2 persons married with 3 & 6.Wedding Numerology cautions you to be careful about the relation with persons with 4 & 8. Why? Because these persons with 4 or 8 will curtail your freedom. In fact they may boss over you too much to your dislike.

7. Numerology cautions you when you choose and marry a person with Birth No. 1. Such persons with No. 1 will boss over you. Their love is short lived. They will not care for you and desert you in your later life. Numerology points out that as a person with Birth No. 2, if you quarrel with those with Birth No. 1, your spouse will walk out on you.  He or she will file false accusations on you and may even send you to jails.

8. As a 2 born you are inefficient in handling your family. In most cases you are lost in your own undertakings. You are not close to your relatives. You keep them at a distance. The 2 persons are most likely to be drawn to courts for cases like settlement, separation, and divorce. This makes you take to drinks and hit the bottle. People file false cases and harass you.

9. You like very much to love a person .you do not cross your limits. Either you lose your interest after some time or you are unable to perform as a long standing lover. As a 2 born person you are most likely to become a victim of sex scandals. It is a pity that your own wife and relatives speak ill of you and make you lose your social reputation.

Birth Number 2 as husband

You have a natural love and attraction for home more perhaps than any other type.  There are two types of husbands belonging to this number;   one is dominating and exacting.  He is faultfinding and nothing satisfies him.  The other type is passive, lazy and indulgent.  He will marry for the sake of money so that he may ultimately live in comfort.

Number 2 as wife.

As a wife, you are sympathetic, affectionate and devoted.  You are satisfied with anything your husband provides you.  However you are moody, changeable and sensitive.  You will not disturb your husband but do the things in your own way.  Though you will carry out your responsibilities as a housewife, you are not much interested in spending your time in the kitchen.

Birth Number 3  (born on dates like 3, 12, 21, or 30 your No. Is 3.) 

1. You have a natural attraction towards those born in the period from 21st June to 20th July and from 21st October to 20th November.  It is, therefore, advisable that you find your marriage.  Partner form this period.  You also have affinity for those who are governed by numbers 3, 2, 6 and 9.  Therefore, select your partner from the series of these numbers and from the above period.

2.If your birth number is  3, you will be mostly attracted towards persons born with Birth No. 3 or Birth No. 9. You will also love persons with Life Path Number 3 or Life No. 9.

You get Life Path Number by adding the numbers in your birth date, month, and year and reduce it to a single digit.

3. It will be really best for you to marry a person born on dates like 3, 12, 21, or 30. It will also be equally best for you to marry a person born with Number 3 as his or her Life Number andyou will have a very calm, peaceful, and pleasant life. Your married life will be very successful. 

4. Your life will be successful also when you marry a person with 9 as his or her Birth No. You will also have a happy married life if you marry one with Life No. 9. Numerology 3 reveals that when you marry a person with 9 as his or her Birth or Life Number, you will be forced to play a submissive role. As your partner is born with 9, he or she will be highly active and aggressive.

5. you should not to marry a person born on any date like 8, 17, or 26. That is one with birth or life no. 8. This  applies for both persons born with 8 as his or her birth number or life number. In both cases 8 is evil to 3 and you will not be happy in such a marriage.

6. When you go into the numerology basics, you get to know that No. 3 refers to Guru or Jupiter. And No. 6 refers to Shukra or Venus. As per Hindu Mythology studies Guru and Shukra are sworn enemies. That is why books on numerology 3 caution you about marrying one with 6 as his Birth or Life Number. What happens if you ignore this advice? You will live with your husband or wife like cats and dogs. You hate each other.

7. When you study Numerology deeply, you know that you will be happy with persons born on dates of 2 like 2, 11, 20, or 29.  It can be their Birth No. or Life No. It does not matter. You will have good children. Your marriage with the 2 persons will be happy and successful.

8. When you observe persons of 3 married to persons with number 4, you know that they are misfits for each other. why? The 3 persons are not talkative whereas the 4 ones are big spenders and extremely talkative.

9. Numerology advises you to avoid the 7 persons.  Those born with 7 as their birth or life number are not cut out for marriage. They will prevent your financial success and they will be failures in making love.

10.If you are born with 3 and if you marry one with 1 or 5, chances are that both of you will not be happy.

Birth Number 3 as husband

1. As a general rule, you attain puberty at an early age and marry early. 

2. You are ambitious, your ambitions also make you expect  too many things from your wife and thus you become disappointed. 

3. You desire to have a wife of whom you would be proud.  She should have an attractive personality, a commanding presence, charming manners and intelligence. 

3. It will be good for you to choose a number 3 person or a number 6 person as your life partner. 

4. You are most loving, thoughtful and considerate.  Your passions are adventurous and demand immediate satisfaction.

BirthNumber 3 as wife.

1. You are a good companion to your husband. 

2. You are not an intruder but take an active interest in the business of your husband. 

3. You are efficient in house-keeping and have a sympathetic and balanced outlook on your children.  4.Your passions are healthy and joyous and your approach to physical love is highly refined and inspiring.

Birth Number 4 (born on dates like 4, 13, 22, or 31 your No. Is 4.)
 

1. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 19th February and 20th March and between 21st October and 20th November.  It is, therefore, advisable that you select your marriage partner from this period.
 

2. You also have an affinity for those who are governed by numbers 1, 2, 4, 7 and 8.

3. You will have a very good family life. But you should get married on your lucky date and time. You will be blessed with many children who will add color to your life.

. If you will love spending a lot of money on many things. Therefore it will be better and wise for you to choose a girl from a rich family back ground as your wife.

4. Your most ideal partner should have No. 1 as his Birth Number. As you have 4 as your Birth Number you will have a natural affinity and affection for persons with Birth Number 1.You will love to please your husband or wife at any cost.  You will be instantly ready to do any sacrifice to please your spouse.  And you will enjoy doing it. In short you will have an ideal husband wife relationship.

5.As seen in numerology for No. 1 your partner with No. 1 will play the lead role in your life.  You will always be submissive to him and you will like it. You will do the same thing even if his Life Number is 4.The beauty in name numerology is that 4 & 1 or 1 & 4 make the most ideal marriage partners. If you consider 1 as the Magnet, No. 4 constitues the iron filing that moves and attaches itself to the magnet.

6. Numerology declares that just as in the case of 4 & 1, you with Birth No. 4, will like to love and marry a person with Birth Number 8. Here you play the lead role.  The 8 person always obeys your commands. Numerology number 8 makes it remain loving and submissive to persons born with 4 as birth number or life number. Care, Love, Affection, and obedience will be the part played by an 8 person if you were born with 4.

7. According to  numerology, only partners with 1 or 8 will be most suitable to you as a husband or wife. If you marry any other person born with any other numbers besides 1 and 8, your life will not be successful. Numerology Number 8 is in general supposed to be unlucky.  But as you are born with No. 4 as birth number or life number, the situation is different. In fact the most successful lovers in the world have 1, 4 & 8.

Birth Number 4 as husband

1. You are affectionate and emotional. You are generous and have a kind and loving heart.

2. You expect a partner who has an active temperament and quite a deal of physical courage. 

3. You are quite possessive which many create unpleasantness. 

4. You are shrewd and intelligent and expect your wife to share your views. 

5. You are dominating and want all affairs of the house to run as per your desire.
 

Birth Number 4 as wife.

1. You are smart and attractive.
 

2. You have the art of dressing well and have a strong will power.
 

3.You aim at several things but hardly succeed in getting mastery over even one.

4. You love interior decoration but do not have the capacity to work hard at it, and you will get it done through others
. 

5. You are many times dictatorial and moody and spoil your birth due to your own whimsical nature. 

6. You love your home but are not attached to it very much. 

7. You are often uneasy and it is better for you to find a friend governed by number 1 or 2.  You are headstrong and sometimes cruel. 

8. You always make others dance to your tune.   This is m
ore so if you are born during the period of Mars and on the 22nd of a month such as, 22nd March, 22nd April, 22nd October, 22nd November and even 22nd December.

Birth Number 5 (born on dates like 5, 14, 23, your No. Is 5.) 

1. There will be a strong desire for affection,  but the factor of sincerity will count for a lot, and despite a natural desire for companionship previous to marriage, the commonsense view of affairs will keep this desire within bounds.
 

2. Your love affairs and marriage will be productive and happiness will prevail.
 

3. In some respects interests of a philosophical and religious nature will play their part and the marriage partner can be met whilst attending church, temple or a religious ceremony. 

4. There will be love and sympathy from the marriage partner and benefit for your vocational and financial matters.

5. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 21st September and 20th October and between 21st January and 20th February.  It is therefore advisable that you find your marriage partner from this period.
 

6. You also have affinity for those who are governed by numbers 1, 5, 7 and 8
.

7. Marriage Numerology has studied the lives of persons with No. 5 like you. Many persons with 5 as their Day Number or Life Number do not have any children. If your name number is good you may have one or two kids.Numerology 5 reveals that if you marry a person with No. 5 your chances of child birth are greatly reduced. You may not have any child at all. Therefore make your choice of your life mate by consulting an expert in numerology.

8. Marriage Numerology states that as a person born with 5, you will be naturally attracted to persons with No. 9 as their Day No. or Life no.  If you marry a person with No. 9, your life will be happy and successful.

9. You will also be naturally attracted to persons with 5 as their day number or life number. But here it poses a risk.If your life number is also 5, then marriage with a Number 5 person is not wise. Why? Your chances of child birth are greatly reduced. (Those who are born on dates like 5, 14, or 23 are said to have No. 5.  Your life number is 5 when you get 5 by adding the numerical values of your birth date, month, and year and reduce the total to a single digit number.)

10. You will have a satisfactory married life with No. 1 persons. However your spouse with No. 1 will dominate you and you will not like it. You have to adjust yourself to this situation.

11. Your married life with the 3 persons will be very comfortable. As you are born with No. 5, the 3 persons will dance to your tunes. They will support your plans for development.

12. Numerology 6 is definitely superior to Numerology 5. You have No. 5.  Your spouse with 6 will be an asset to you. In fact he or she will help you in all your plans, projects, and business in many ways for your development.

13. You will be instantly attracted to the 9 persons. That is if they have their day number or life number as 9. You will please them in all respects and you will have a lucky married life.

Birth Number 5 as husband

1. You are lucky and successful in your married life
. 

2. Your selection is good and usually you select a person of your own type.
 

3. You love your partner.  You expect neatness and cleanliness from your partner and also desire that your partner should share with you the enjoyment of life. 

4. You are proud of your wife and like to see her well dressed.  In return, you prove yourself to be a good husband
. 

5. You love your children and are fond of home. 

 6. Even when you travel, you are very much attracted towards home and are eager to return spending on clothing and other wants of the members of your family and furnish your house with good taste.

Birth Number 5 as wife

1. You have interest at home as well as outside. 

2. You have many activities and manage them well. 

3. You like tidiness and, though you seldom do your own work, you get it done through your commanding personality.

Birth Number 6 (born on dates like 6, 15, 24, your No. Is 6.)
 

1. You have a natural attraction towards those born in the period between 21st August and 20th September and between December 21st and January 20th.  It is therefore advisable that you choose your partner from this period.
 

2.You also have an affinity for those who are governed by the numbers 2, 3, 6 and 9.

3. You will be mostly attracted to persons who have 6 as their Day No. or Life No. Your heart melts with love and affection when you meet such persons born with Numerology 6.

4. If you marry a person with No. 6, your chances of getting children are greatly reduced. But if your Life number is very strong, you will be blessed with children.

5.Persons with Numerology 6 are fond of lovely things, nice costumes and attractive jewelry. If you have 6, you like to spend on these things. If both have 6, you need strong life numbers to support you with sufficient income.

6.Numerology says that if you have 6 as both your Day Number and Life Number you should marry only persons with Number 1, 4, or 9. Only these persons will like you, adore you, and love you. Numerology reveals that if you marry persons with other numbers, your married life will be less lucky. You should not marry those with No. 3 as both 6 and 3 are mutually inimical to each other.

7.You should not marry persons with 7, says marriage numerology. If with your No. 6 you marry a 7 person, your married life will ruined. Your spouse will be unfit for marriage and you cannot have a happy married life.

8.You should not marry persons with Number 8. No. 8 is Saturn's Number. Saturn will give you miseries, misfortunes, accidents, and sorrows. You will lose the benefits of No. 6.

9.Marriage Numerology reveals that if you are born with 6, you should have strong Life No. to enjoy your marriage in all its fullness. In case your Life number is 2, 7, or 8, your chances of child birth are remote.

10. Books on Numerology 6 caution you to remember this point when you choose a 6 person as your wife. She can have 6 as her Day No. or Life No. She will not beget any children if her Life number is 2 or 7, or 8.

11. Researches on Numerology 6 reveal that if you are a person born with 6 as your day or life number, you will mostly have female children. Your chances of getting male children will improve only if you correct your names.

12. Numerology says that if you are born with 6, you can find a good life mate in any of the persons with Numerology 5. Whether husband or wife, a person with Numerology 5 will support you in all respects.

Birth Number 6 as husband

1. You are attracted to marriage and usually marry early in life. 

2. You expect your partner to be neat and have charm and grace. 

3.Yours is usually a large family with many children.  You love your children and home. 

4.You are very kind, generous and devoted.  Though you create a lively atmosphere in the house, you somehow find it difficult to meet all the necessities of the members of your family. 

5.This may sometimes create unpleasantness and make you unhappy in your married life.  Art is everything to you and you remain impractical in not understanding the material values of a successful life.

6.It is necessary for you to control sudden emotions; otherwise attachments of an unsatisfactory nature will  be formed which would disturb your married life. 

7.If you can differentiate between fascination and true love, real happiness, both before and after marriage is your lot.

Birth Number 6 as wife.

1. You never resort to divorce and endure extreme hardship rather than desert your mate.  

2. You are a devoted mother and a loving wife, satisfied with your husband's efforts on your behalf. 

 3. You love domestic life and are a perfect housewife.

Birth Number 7 (born on dates like 7, 16, 28, your No. Is 7.)

1.If your Day No. or Life No. is 7, be prepared for an unhappy married life. This is what happens in most persons' lives with No. 7. They get married to persons with totally opposite characters and suffer in their married life.Numerology 7 is fit only for a Divine Life. You can head and run a religious institution successfully. But you cannot be a good husband or wife in running your family. You are just not cut out for marriage.

2.Marriage Numerology says that if you are a woman with No. 7, you have a miserable life. If your name compound number is weak, you suffer without kids. You are not beautiful to look at. Men take very little interest in you.

3.Researches on Numerology 7 reveal that the usual feminine charms in other ladies are missing in you. If name your compound number is weak, you have a poor structure with thin breasts and flat behinds.

4.Marriage Numerology states that if your name is flawless and you marry in your lucky moment, your marriage with a No. 2 person turns out very successful. There is a natural mutual attraction between No. 2 and No. 7.

5.Numerology 7 confirms that 7 likes 2 and 2 likes 7. But there will still be misunderstandings and small fights. However, you will have an overall successful married life. You also have a greater chance for childbirth.

6.Marriage Numerology reveals that 7 and 4 are close as per Hindu Mythology. 7 is Ketu and 4 is Rahu. Both were security guards in the Heaven. They were cursed and sent here for a sin they committed.Numerology 7 adds that both 7 & 4 are close because both became demons after the curse. Therefore there is a natural attraction between 7 & 4. If you marry a 4 person, therefore, your marital life will be happy.

7.Numerology 7 cautions you not to marry any 8 person. Why? Already as you are born with 7, your financial, marital, and love life is in turmoil. If you marry an 8 person, your marriage will turn out to be most unlucky.

8. Number 8 is inimical to Numerology 7. Number 8 is Saturn. When he becomes your spouse, you get disappointments and defeats in your life. You suffer with miseries, misfortunes, accidents, and sorrows. 

9.Numerology says that you will not be happy in your marriage with a No. 1 person. However your chances of childbirth are a little bright when you marry that person. But your marriage will not last long.

10.Numerology 7 says that if you do your marriage in your inauspicious time, your marriage life will be unhappy even if you marry a person with numerology 5. This is true even for the best pairs of numbers like  7 & 2

11. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period from 21st October to 20th November and from 19th February to 20th March.  It is, therefore, advisable that you find your marriage partner form this period. 

12.You also have affinity for those who are governed by numbers 1, 3, 4, 5, 7

BirthNumber 7 as husband

You are very emotional and understand the feelings of your wife.  You are very considerate and will never try to impose your ideas on your wife.  You are liberal, fond of picnics, travels and the cinema.  You are a spendthrift and like to live lavishly.  Your family is moderate in size and have all the comforts of life
.

BirthNumber 7 as wife.

1. You are very moody and your behavior is unpredictable. 

2. You are very uneasy and get easily disturbed over small matters. 

3. You are good at entertaining friends and you like to invite people for parties or dinner. 

4.You expect your husband to look after you all the time.

Birth Number 8 (born on dates like 8, 17, 26, your No. Is 8.) 

1.If your Birth Number or Life Path No. is 8, your best marriage partner will be among persons of 4 & 1. Though No. 8 is considered unlucky, 8 will be good to 4 and 1, if marriage takes place among these persons of 8 & 4 or 8 & 1.

2. Numerology says that if you are born with 8, it will be wise for you to marry a person with Number 4 as his or her Day No. or Life No. You will have intense love and devotion to the 4 persons.

3. Number 8 reveal that if you have a flawless perfect name, and if you marry a 4 born person in your most auspicious date and time, your marriage will be highly successful.

4. Numerology says that just like 4 likes 8 and 8 likes 4, there is a magnetic attraction between persons born with 8 and persons born with 1. You can have real true immortal love with persons born with No. 1.

5. Numerology says that if you want your married life to be happy, you have to ensure that your names are perfect. If you have defective names you have to correct them as per name numerology and astrology.

6.Marriage Numerology says that you can have a reasonable life if you marry a person of 6. But it is inferior to the marriage with No. 4 persons. Then again you should ensure that your moment of marriage is most auspicious
.

7. Number 8 cautions you not to get married to persons with birth numbers of 2, 7, or 9.  These numbers should not come either as Day Number or Life Number. Such persons are unlucky for you.

8. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 21st April and 20th May and between 21st August and 20th September.  It is, therefore, advisable that you select your marriage partner from this period. 

9.You also have affinity for those who are governed by numbers 1, 4, 5, and 8.

Number 8 as husband

1.Basically, you have only  a weak desire to get married.
 

2.You Prefer loneliness and like to be left to yourself. 

3. You have less attraction for the opposite sex. 

4. Usually you try postpone your marriage with the result that if at all your marry it will be at a very late stage.

5. You also find it difficult to choose your partner. 

6. You prefer seclusion to social gatherings, as a result of which you make your married life miserable. 

7. You are very orthodox in your views and do not allow your wife to adopt modern ideas in dress at home or in public places. 

 8. The natural result is disappointment on the part of the wife and hatred for her husband. 

9. If, however, you have a desire to be successful in married life, you should prefer a person who is also interested in deep and serious studies and likes to devote herself to philosophy and occult subjects.

Number 8 as wife.

1. You have a masculine personality.  You are capable and systematic.
 

2. You enjoy your family life and like to make sacrifices for your children and for the ambitions of your husband. 

3. Your fault is that you lack feminine warmth, sentiment and delicacy.

1.One of the most common and long lasting problems of a 8 born(8,17,26) person is their married life. Almost 90 % of 8 borns in this world with non 5 names(total of name)  are suffering due to lack of happiness and peacefulness in their married life.

2.The ten percent of those who still enjoy their marriage are bound to have a strong Jupiter in their horoscope which saves their marriage life.

3.For men and woman,who born on 8,17 and 26, in order to lead a happy married life, they got to marry the person who has born on either 1, 4 , or 8 ( These are root numbers, 1 means 1,10,19 or 28 born,4 means 4,13,22,31 and 8 means 8,17 and 26) or person with life-path(total of birth date) as these numbers
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3.When a 8 born marries the person of this number, they tend to be very communicative and share their emotions freely. One of the greatest hurdle of a 8 born is their lack of communication of their emotions. Once, they overcome this, they can lead a happy and contented married life.

4.If a person who’s born on 8 marries a person who doesn’t belong to the above said number, then conflicts are bound to happen. They can resolve it by keeping a same name value for both husband and wife.  At any cost, a 8 born should never marry a 9 born person, 8 born and 9 born are not at all compatible.

5.One of the way where a 8 born can lead a happy married life without marrying 1,4, and 8 born person is by changing their name into 5. When the name is in 5, the  8 borns can marry anyone and lead a happy life ( But still 9 borns should be avoided).

6.Generally, most men in the world fall in love with 8 born women. As they think 8 born woman are always a puzzle and very strange. also, 8 born woman have a childish heart and mostly very innocent and god fearing. But men take advantage of these qualities and this is where 8 born woman mostly get cheated by men, and they fail in their love relationship.

7.    8 born woman should be careful in love relationships and should not trust the partner easily before marriage.

8.Another problem faced by 8 born women are miscarriage and childless marriage, 8 born woman usually marry late in their life, and sometimes they are denied a child due to their nervous system of the body.

9.They should avoid wearing black color dresses, and  They should maximum try to wear yellow color dresses, which will enhance the fertility in them.

Birth Number 9 (born on dates like 9, 18, 27, your No. Is 9.)

1As you are born with No. 9, you will tolerate and adjust with those born with No. 3. They will meticulously help you in all your plans and projects. They will work for your upliftment.

2. you can marry persons born with No. 6 as their Day No. or Life Number. They will add color to your life. They will help you to increase your wealth. You will enjoy your married life with them.

3. you should not marry any one from those born with 2 as their day number or life number. Because 2 is inimical to 9. And No. 9 is inimical to No. 2. Such a marriage will end as a failure.

4. As per numerology, 7 is inimical to your 9. And 9 is inimical to No. 7.  These are mutually inimical numbers. Therefore it is not wise for you to marry a person with 7. Persons with No. 7 are not cut out for marital life. 

5.As per Numerology 9, if you are born with 9, it is not wise for you to choose a marriage partner with No.1.  As a 9 person, you will be very forceful. The partner with 1 will dominate you and you will not like it.

6.As per Numerology, it is not wise for you to choose your spouse with No. 8. As you know 8 is Saturn. If you marry such a person, you will have only miseries, misfortunes, accidents, and sorrows in your life.

7. You have a natural attraction towards persons born in the period between 21st July and 20th August and between 21st November and 20th December.  It is, therefore, advisable that you select your partner from this period. 

8. You also have affinity for those who are governed by numbers 3, 6 and 9.

Number 9 as husband

1. Your robust health and strong circulation of blood make you passionate and enthusiastic about married life.
 

2. You are fond of a good looking partner and like her to be submissive and passive to your sexual desires. 

3. You are fond of family and children and like to have a good house.
 

4. You usually lead a good married life in spite of your hot-tempered nature and eccentricities
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5. You have a romantic mental picture of what you want in your wife.  This mental picture demands perfection. 

6. The most difficult thing i
n married life is to satisfy your romantic conception of physical love. 

7. You have a voracious appetite and your wife with her devotion should harmonies with you physically.
 

8. Usually, you are suspicious about your wife
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9. As a result of marriage, you will find it easier to bring about a realization of your hopes and wished.  Your wife will prove to be invaluable in these respects
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Number 9 as wife

1. You will be a wonderful wife for an ambitious person.
 

2. You are a witty and clever conversationalist with a wonderful social presence. 

3. You will assist your husband in his business. 

4. You many also start your own activity and add to the family income.
 

5. You will be happy if married to a passionate and possessive man.

 Tips for a Happy Marriage
Sex is an essential part of married life. Apart from procreation pure and mutual love based sex not only strengthens marital bond, it also evolves both partners.The environment of the place where sexual activity is done needs attention. In addition to general factors the Vastu of the place influences relationship. 
Here are some tips, which if followed can enhance sexual relationships
 and bring happiness and satisfaction in married life:

Vaastu Tips for Bedroom:-

As per Vastu for Master Bedroom, it should always be in the South-West corner of the home and head of the family must occupy this bedroom.

1. The master bedroom should always be bigger than other rooms of the house.
2. If the house is multi-story then master bedroom in the South-West corner of the top floor is best.
3. Perfect place for bed in master bedroom is towards South or West wall, so that while sleeping the person’s head is towards South or West and legs towards North or East.
4. Directions for Sleeping in bedroom as per Vastu Shastra:-

1.         Sleeping with legs towards the east gives name, reputation & richness.

2.       Sleeping with legs towards the west gives mental harmony & augments fondness for spiritualism.

3.       Sleeping with legs towards the north, increases prosperity and opulence.

4.       However, one should not sleep with legs towards South as he will not have a sound sleep. There will be bad dreams, bad thoughts in the mind. Heaviness in the chest can also be sensed occasionally. South direction is Place of Yama (the Lord of Death). Mind sickness will increase and there is possibility of lessening of life span.

5. Bed alignment to any corners is unsuitable.
6. Vastu says that the master bedroom should only be used by married couples.
7. West or North side is suitable for attached bathroom, changing room or bath tub etc.
8. The bathroom should not face the bed directly and the door of the bathroom must always be kept closed.
9. East, North or West walls are best spot for entrance door of master bedroom. Avoid entrance on South wall.
10. Make sure the door of the bedroom is of single shutter and always opens completely without any noise.
11. East or North walls are good for windows in the bedroom.
12. South-West corner of the master bedroom should always be occupied.
13. Best place to keep heavy wardrobes, shelves or almirah is the South-West corner of the master bedroom.
14. A mezzanine floor in South or West wall is tolerable in the bedroom.
15. Never place safe in bedroom. If unavoidable then place the safe away from the North-East, North-West, South-East and South-West corners and East and West directions.
16. If the safe is kept towards the South wall and opens towards the North then it’s very auspicious.
17. Place dressing table with/without mirror in the North or East wall.
18. If a mirror is in the bedroom with/without dressing table then make sure than none of the body part is visible in the mirror while sleeping on the bed, else the same body part will develop medical problems.
19. Please avoid TV, PC or laptops in the bedroom (I know it is hard, but that’s the way it is).
20. Put TV (if you can’t control yourself), heater and other electrical appliances in the South-East of the bedroom.
21. Hang a beautiful and pleasant painting or any portrait on the wall so that it is easily seen as someone enters the bedroom.
22. Vastu bedroom tips say that plants, fish aquariums or any other life forms are a strict “NO” in bedroom.
23. If a bedroom is in the West side of the home then it’s best for children.
24. As per bedroom vastu, unmarried children or guests can use a bedroom in the East.
25. Lay beds in the children’s bedroom in the South-West so that a child’s head is in East or South direction.
26. As per Vastu Shastra do not place any bedroom in the South-East direction of the main building as it leads to unnecessary quarrels (this does not means that there are necessary quarrels also  between husband and wife, inefficient expenditure increases and the couple has to face lot of difficulties.
27. However still if a bedroom is present in the South-East direction then use it as an office or unmarried son’s bedroom.
28. Do not have any bedroom in the North-East direction as this is the place for deities and if a bedroom is present in this site then one faces many mishaps and sickness in the family increases.
29. Also if a married couple sleeps in a North-East bedroom then they have to face long-term diseases.
30. Avoid any bedroom in the center of the home.
31. Use light rose, gray, blue, chocolate, green etc as wall colors for bedroom.
32. Stay away from use of marble stones (white and yellow colored) in the newly married couple’s bedroom

To have a really happy marriage, you need to work at it. As the saying goes, the only place you find success before work is in the dictionary.

These happy marriage tips have been proven to work in a wide variety of relationships and I wanted to share them with you. Hopefully they will contribute value to your efforts to build a lasting and happy marriage.

10 Tips to help build a strong and happy marriage

1. Build trust into your marriage. It takes effort to built a happy marriage succeed. So, be determined not to flirt or get too close with members of the opposite sex. If you do, in the back of your mind, you could begin to view someone else as an alternatives when your marriage goes through a rough patch. Having an alternative will weaken your resolve to make your marriage work. Trust is the foundation of a happy marriage and it’s something you need to work at.

2. Show respect by paying  attention. Listen to your spouse when he or she talks to you. Mutual respect is vital for a happy marriage. When you give your mate your undivided attention it shows that you respect them and value what they have to say. If your spouse talks to you when you’re in the middle of something important, explain that you want to hear what they have to say and suggest a time when you’ll be able to pay better attention.

3. Do fun things together. Find thing that you enjoy doing together and then make time to do them. Exercise together, go on walks, or take on mutually enjoyable projects together. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as you both have fun doing it. Spending time together enjoying each other’s company will strengthen your happy marriage and add another meaningful dimension to your relationship.

4. Learn from your experiences. Figure out when to do, or not do, certain things. For example, if you find that you tend to be tense and cranky when you’re hungry, minimize your conversation with your spouse during those times. Similarly, if you see that your spouse gets worked up whenever you mention the name of a certain person, don’t mention that person’s name unless absolutely necessary. Build a happy marriage by being smart enough to learn from the past.

5. Be polite to your mate. When speaking with with your partner, use phrases like please and thank you. Being polite should not be viewed as a formality. It is a way that we honor our mate and it helps them to feel appreciated and respected. Being courteous is like the oil that helps a happy marriage run smoothly and reduces unnecessary friction. If you can be polite to a stranger, then it should be even more important to be polite to your marriage mate.

6. Never say “I told you so.” Strike the phrase “I told you so” from your vocabulary.  They already know that you told them so, why rub it in? Saying so only creates ill will between you and your spouse. We all mess up from time to time. And when we do having it rubbed in our face doesn’t help. A little support and encouragement will do a lot more toward building a happy marriage than taking a shot at your partner when they are already feeling bad.

7. Don’t Keep Score. Marriage is not a contest so don’t walk around with a watchful eye making sure your partner carries there share of the load. Instead, take the view that it doesn’t matter if you end up doing more than half of what needs to be done. Trying to make your relationship fifty-fifty proposition will cause a lot of unnecessary tension and you don’t need that. So unless your spouse is a total slacker,  recognize that in a happy marriage both partners try to help their mate carry the load.

8. Don’t sweat the small stuff. A family court judge once commented that in 99 percent of the divorce cases he presided over, the couples were upset over very trivial things. Wouldn’t it be ironic if a marriage was strong enough to stand up to all the big challenges, but couldn’t get past the minor irritations of daily life? Here’s a secret from my own happy marriage. Learn to view your partners little idiosyncrasies as entertaining rather than irritating. It works, so don’t sweat the small stuff.

9. Greet your partner with a smile. We all want to know that our mate is happy to see us. Well, when they greet us with a smile it reassures us of that, and our smile does the same for them. A smile can do so much and requires so little effort. It has the power to lift someone’s spirits and it sets the stage for a pleasant reunion after a long and perhaps difficult day. If you want a happy marriage, lead with your smile and let that be the first impression you make when you greet your mate.

10. Respect your spouse’s privacy. Don’t go through your partner’s things out of curiosity or in an effort to check up on them. We all want our privacy to be respected and when someone violates that it feels offensive. Don’t let a sense of insecurity cause you to become overly suspicious of your your mate. On the other hand, being secretive can create suspicion. A happy marriage should be built on open and honest communication. So, if there is something you need to know, ask, don’t snoop.

Marriage Quotes

As I see it, out of a hundred marriages ninety-nine marriages are just licensed prostitution. They are not marriages. A marriage is only a real marriage when it grows out of love. Legal, illegal, does not matter. The real thing that matters is love. If love exists between two persons, it is blessed. If love does not exist between two persons, then all your laws put together cannot bridge them. Then they exist separate, then they exist apart, then they exist in conflict, then they exist always in war. And they create all kinds of trouble for each other. They are nasty to each other, nagging to each other, possessive of each other, violent, oppressive, dominating, dictatorial. In a better world, with a better humanity, things will be different. In a better world, the child born out of love will not be called bastard; the child only born out of license, law, will be called bastard.

Osho

A dress that zips up the back will bring a husband and wife together.

James H. Boren

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.

Michel de Montaigne

A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Rodney Dangerfield

A husband is what is left of a lover, after the nerve has been extracted.

Helen Rowland

A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.

John Steinbeck

A man in love is incomplete until he has married. Then he's finished.

Zsa Zsa Gabor

A man marries to have a home, but also because he doesn't want to be bothered with sex and all that sort of thing.

W. Somerset Maugham

A psychiatrist asks a lot of expensive questions your wife asks for nothing.

Joey Adams

A successful marriage is an edifice that must be rebuilt every day.

Andre Maurois

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

Mignon McLaughlin

A wedding is a funeral where you smell your own flowers.

Eddie Cantor

After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay together.

Hemant Joshi

All marriages are happy. It's the living together afterward that causes all the trouble.

Raymond Hull

All men make mistakes, but married men find out about them sooner.

Red Skelton

Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage.

Sydney J. Harris

An ideal wife is one who remains faithful to you but tries to be just as charming as if she weren't.

Sacha Guitry

Any intelligent woman who reads the marriage contract, and then goes into it, deserves all the consequences.

Isadora Duncan

Bachelors have consciences, married men have wives.

Samuel Johnson

Bachelors know more about women than married men; if they didn't they'd be married too.

H. L. Mencken

Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.

Marilyn Monroe

Being divorced is like being hit by a Mack truck. If you live through it, you start looking very carefully to the right and to the left.

Jean Kerr

Be a little aware before you are trapped! Marriage is a trap: you will be trapped by the woman and the woman will be trapped by you. It is a mutual trap. And then legally you are allowed to torture each other forever.

Osho

Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said; after marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish saying it.

Unknown

Behind every great man there is a surprised woman.

Maryon Pearson

Bring more understanding to it. You will not be able to separate easily because love is involved. Without love marriage is easy, divorce is easy. It does not matter either way; it is a simple, utilitarian arrangement. If things-are going well, good; otherwise, say 'goodbye'. But when you are involved in each other it is not easy, it is difficult. A part of your being has become incorporated in his being, a part of his being has become incorporated in your being. You really don't exist as two individuals any more - you exist as a couple. A couple does not mean two persons living together. A couple means: two persons plugged into each other - no more really two... trying to be separate and yet trying to be together. That is the difficulty: one wants to remain dependent and one wants to remain independent. One is asking for two polar opposites.

Osho

But I am all for love, and I am against marriage, particularly the arranged kind, because the arranged marriage gives you satisfaction. And love? - love can never satisfy you. It gives you more and more thirst for a better and better love, it makes you more and more long for it, it gives you tremendous discontentment. And that discontent is the beginning of the search for God. When love fails many times, you start looking for a new kind of lover, a new kind of love, a new quality of love. That love affair is prayer, meditation, sannyas.

Osho

But people try love and because they are unconscious... their longing is good, but their love is full of jealousy, full of possessiveness, full of anger, full of nastiness. Soon they destroy it. Hence for centuries they have depended on marriage. Better to start by marriage so that the law can protect you from destroying it. The society, the government, the court, the policeman, the priest, they will all force you to live in the institution of marriage, and you will be just a slave. If marriage is an institution, you are going to be a slave in it. Only slaves want to live in institutions.

Osho

Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without.

James C. Dobson

Faithful women are all alike, they think only of their fidelity, never of their husbands.

Jean Giraudoux

For years my wedding ring has done its job. It has led me not into temptation. It has reminded my husband numerous times at parties that it's time to go home. It has been a source of relief to a dinner companion. It has been a status symbol in the maternity ward.

Erma Bombeck

Getting divorced just because you don't love a man is almost as silly as getting married just because you do.

Zsa Zsa Gabor

For two people in a marriage to live together day after day is unquestionably the one miracle the Vatican has overlooked.

Bill Cosby

He that loves not his wife and children feeds a lioness at home, and broods a nest of sorrows.

Jeremy Taylor

He's the kind of man a woman would have to marry to get rid of.

Mae West

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

Oscar Wilde

I am basically against marriage; obviously the question of divorce does not arise. I am against the accidental birth of people, because that is the basic cause for the earth being burdened with the retarded. I am in absolute agreement that love should be just play; the moment you start producing children it becomes business. And I cannot agree to produce this kind of humanity. I was teaching that whenever a couple... of course unmarried, because the law has nothing to do with your love. Love should be a freedom between two persons, and if from even one person love disappears they have to separate, as friends, with gratitude for all the beautiful moments they lived together. Loving affairs ending in the courts are absolutely ugly.

Osho

I am all for love, because love fails. You will be surprised - I have my own logic. I am all for love, because love fails. I am not for marriage, because marriage succeeds; it gives you a permanent settlement. And that is the danger: you become satisfied with a toy, you become satisfied with something plastic, artificial, man-made.

Osho

I am not against marriage -- I am for love. If love becomes your marriage, good; but don't hope that marriage can bring love. That is not possible. Love can become a marriage. You have to work very consciously to transform your love into a marriage. Ordinarily, people destroy their love. They do EVERYTHING to destroy it and then they suffer. And they go on saying, 'What went wrong?' They destroy -- they do everything to destroy it.

Osho

I don't think my wife likes me very much, when I had a heart attack she wrote for an ambulance.

Frank Carson

I have learned that only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. First, let her think she's having her own way. And second, let her have it.

Lyndon B. Johnson

I have never heard about any perfect marriage. They say perfect marriages are made in heaven. Nobody comes back from there so maybe it is true, but what kind of marriage will those perfect marriages be? There will be no tension, there will be no individuality in the man or in the woman. They will never collide, they will never fight. They will be too sweet to each other. And too much sweetness brings diabetes! Marriage is an institution that teaches a man regularity, frugality, temperance, forbearance and many other splendid virtues he would not need had he stayed single.

Osho

I have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage, but it is destroyed by you, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is you who destroy it, because you don't know what love is. You simply pretend to know, you simply hope that you know, you dream that you know, but you don't know what love is. Love has to be learned; it is the greatest art there is.

Osho

I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.

Rita Rudner

If it were not for the presents, an elopement would be preferable.

George Ade

If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.

Michel de Montaigne

If you made a list of reasons why any couple got married, and another list of the reasons for their divorce, you'd have a hell of a lot of overlapping.

Mignon McLaughlin

If you want to read about love and marriage, you've got to buy two separate books.

Alan King

If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married.

Katharine Hepburn

In a time when nothing is more certain than change, the commitment of two people to one another has become difficult and rare. Yet, by its scarcity, the beauty and value of this exchange have only been enhanced.

Robert Sexton

In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage.

Robert Anderson

In marriage there are no manners to keep up, and beneath the wildest accusations no real criticism. Each is familiar with that ancient child in the other who may erupt again. We are not ridiculous to ourselves. We are ageless. That is the luxury of the wedding ring.

Enid Bagnold

In olden times sacrifices were made at the altar - a practice which is still continued.

Helen Rowland

Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and give her a house.

Lewis Grizzard

It destroys one's nerves to be amiable every day to the same human being.

Benjamin Disraeli

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

Friedrich Nietzsche

It isn't tying himself to one woman that a man dreads when he thinks of marrying; it's separating himself from all the others.

Helen Rowland

It takes patience to appreciate domestic bliss; volatile spirits prefer unhappiness.

George Santayana

It's not beauty but fine qualities, my girl, that keep a husband.

Euripides

It's tough to stay married. My wife kisses the dog on the lips, yet she won't drink from my glass.

Rodney Dangerfield

India missed with arranged marriage; the West is missing with free love. India missed love because parents were too calculating and cunning. They would not allow falling in love: that is dangerous, nobody knows where it will lead. They were too clever, and through cleverness India missed all possibility of love. In the West they are too rebellious, too young; not clever -- too young, too childish. They have made sex a free thing, available everywhere: no need to go so deep to discover love, enjoy sex and be finished.
Through sex, the West is missing: through marriage, the East has missed. But if you are alert you need not be Eastern, you need not be Western. Love is neither Eastern nor Western. Go on discovering love within you. And if you love, sooner or later the person will happen to you, because a loving heart, sooner or later, comes to a loving heart -- it always happens. You will find the right person. But if you are jealous you will not find, if you are simply for sex you will not find, if you live only for security you will not find.

Osho

It is sometimes essential for a husband and a wife to quarrel - they get to know each other better.

Goethe

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.

Benjamin Franklin

Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave.

Martin Luther

Love in marriage should be the accomplishment of a beautiful dream, and not, as it too often is, the end.

Alphonse Karr

Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love.

Ellen Key

Love affairs have been failing, and parents feel very happy. People come to me and they say, 'Look, in the West love affairs have been failing. Then why are you against marriage?' they ask me. Love affairs are failing because first the marriage was arranged by the astrologer, then it was arranged by the parents, and now it is being arranged by biology, by instinct. You suddenly feel that you like a woman, but you don't know how long this is going to last and you are not even aware why you like her. You are not even alert to what it is in you that likes her. Maybe it is just her hairstyle. Now, are you going to get married to a hairstyle? You can get married, but tomorrow morning when you see her hair disheveled you will be at a loss; 'Is this the same woman I fell in love with?' How long can you be interested in the hairstyle? Soon you will get fed up. The same hairstyle again and again -- the whole day, twenty-four hours a day...!

Osho

People are falling in love because a certain man has a certain type of nose. People are falling in love with fragments! Nobody is bothered about the totality of the person -- and it is a vast thing. The nose does not count for much --- after two days you won't look at it at all. Or the color, or the shape, or the proportion of the body -- all these things are very minor. The real thing is the total functioning of the person, and that can be experienced only when you live together.

Osho

Love, and love as deeply as possible. And if love itself becomes the marriage, that is another thing, altogether different. If love itself becomes such an intimacy that it is unbreakable, that is another thing, that is not a legal sanction. Legal sanctions are needed only because you are afraid. You know that your love is not enough; you need the legal support for it. You know perfectly well that you can escape or the woman can escape, hence you need the policeman to keep you together. But this is ugly, to need a policeman to keep you together. That's what marriage is!

Osho

Love marriage' came into existence but is not going to survive, for the simple reason that love comes, happens, and one day suddenly goes. It was not in your hands to bring it; neither is it in your hands to keep it. The old marriage failed because the insistence was that you should love your wife, you should love your husband. It was a 'should'. And you could not even conceive how you could love; at the most you could pretend, you could act. But love is not a pretension, is not an acting. You cannot do anything. You are absolutely powerless as far as love is concerned. The old marriage failed. The new marriage is failing because the new marriage is simply a reaction to the old marriage. It is not out of understanding, but only out of reaction, revolt - 'love marriage.'

Osho

Marriage almost always never happens, because marriage means the celebration of togetherness. It is not a license. No registry office can give you marriage; no priest can give it to you as a gift. It is a tremendous revolution in the being, it is a great transformation in your very style of life, and it can happen only when you celebrate togetherness, when the other is no longer felt as the other, when you no longer feel yourself as I. When the two are not really two, a bridge has happened, they have become one in a certain sense. Physically they remain two, but as far as the innermost being is concerned, they have become one. They may be two poles of one existence but they are not two. A bridge exists. That bridge gives you glimpses of togetherness. It is one of the rarest things to come across a marriage. People live together because they cannot live alone. Remember this: because they cannot live alone, that is why they live together. To live alone is uncomfortable, to live alone is uneconomical, to live alone is difficult, that is why they live together. The reasons are negative.

Osho

Marriage exists as an institution of exploitation, it is not togetherness. That is why no happiness comes out of it as a flowering. It cannot. Out of the roots of exploitation how can ecstasy be born?

Osho

Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can't sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can't sleep with the window open.

George Bernard Shaw

Marriage is an attempt to solve problems together which you didn't even have when you were on your own.

Eddie Cantor

Marriage is an institution that teaches a man regularity, frugality, temperance, forbearance and many other splendid virtues he would not need had he stayed single.

Osho

Marriage has made love disappear badly, marriage has made love disappear from the earth. Because for other considerations marriage is arranged - money, finance, family, prestige, astrology - all absurd. They have nothing to do with the heart of the two persons who are going to be married. So marriage is almost always a failure; only in rare accidents it is not so - but they are accidents, exceptions. They cannot be counted. Marriage is always on the rocks, because it is for wrong reasons. Only love can become the foundation of a real marriage, there is no other way. Because there is no other way to find that your wave length is exactly the same as the other's, that you vibrate in the same way as the other. There is no other way to find it out.

Osho

Marriage itself never destroys anything. Marriage simply brings out whatsoever is hidden in you - it brings it out. If love is hidden behind you, inside you, marriage brings it out. If love was just a pretension, just a bait, then sooner or later it has to disappear. And then your reality, your ugly personality comes up. Marriage simply is an opportunity, so whatsoever you had to bring out will come out. I am not saying that love is destroyed by marriage. Love is destroyed by people who don't know how to love. Love is destroyed because in the first place love is not. You have been living in a dream. Reality destroys that dream. Otherwise love is something eternal, part of eternity. If you grow, if you know the art, and you accept the realities of love-life, then it goes on growing every day. Marriage becomes a tremendous opportunity to grow into love.

Osho

Marriage is not a natural phenomenon. It is artificial, arbitrary. And when it disappears you cannot do anything to bring it back. You can pretend, but that pretension makes you a hypocrite. And your pretension cannot deceive the woman, because she has known your love and the pretension cannot become the substitute. The only way is to separate - in friendship, because you have given each other so much.

Osho

Marriage is a totally different phenomenon: it is the climax of love. Then it is good. I am not against marriage - I am for the REAL marriage. I am against the false, the pseudo, that exists. But it is an arrangement. It gives you a certain security, safety, occupation. It keeps you engaged. Otherwise, it gives you no enrichment, it gives you no nourishment.

Osho

My husband and I have never considered divorce... murder sometimes, but never divorce.

Joyce Brothers

My wife and I have the secret to making a marriage last. Two times a week, we go to a nice restaurant, a little wine, good food..... She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays.

Henry Youngman

No matter how happily a woman may be married, it always pleases her to discover that there is a nice man who wishes she were not.

H. L. Mencken

Only fools think in terms of legality; otherwise, love is enough. And I am not against marriage - I am for love. If love becomes your marriage, good; but don't hope that marriage can bring love. That is not possible. Love can become a marriage. You have to work very consciously to transform your love into a marriage.

Osho

One advantage of marriage is that, when you fall out of love with him or he falls out of love with you, it keeps you together until you fall in again.

Judith Viorst

One should marry only when one is wise enough. Marriage is not for young people. For young people is to fool around. Marriage is for those who have experienced life in many ways, who have seen all the colors, the whole spectrum of it, and are now ready to settle.

Osho

The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less.

Brendan Behan

The difficulty with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but must live with a character.

Peter De Vries

The first thing is love: love deeply. If you have been with a person for a few years, in deep love, and you have experienced all the joys and all the miseries, and still you decide to be with the person, then marriage is okay. Because marriage is only a legal arrangement, it cannot make anything more beautiful than it is. It can only make it ugly, it cannot beautify it. Once it is settled legally, once you start taking each other for granted, things will start going down rather than rising high.

Osho

The man who says his wife can't take a joke, forgets that she took him.

Oscar Wilde

The new marriage is failing because the new marriage is simply a reaction to the old marriage. It is not out of understanding, but only out of reaction, revolt -- 'love marriage.' You don't know what love is. You simply see some beautiful face, you see some beautiful body and you think, 'My God, I am in love!' This love is not going to last, because after two days, seeing the same face for twenty-four hours a day, you will get bored. The same body... you have explored the whole topography; now there is nothing to explore. Exploring the same geography again and again, you feel like an idiot. What is the point? This love affair, this love marriage is failing, it has already failed. The reason is that you don't know how to wait so that love can happen.

Osho

The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.

Henny Youngman

There is so little difference between husbands you might as well keep the first.

Adela Rogers St. John

There is a tremendous desire and longing for love, but love needs great awareness. Only then can it reach its highest climax -- and that highest climax IS marriage. It has nothing to do with law. It is a merging of two hearts into totality. It is the functioning of two persons in synchronicity -- that is marriage.

Osho

To avoid mistakes and regrets, always consult your wife before engaging in a flirtation.

E.W. Howe

To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the loving cup, Whenever you're wrong admit it; Whenever you're right shut up.

Ogden Nash

You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

Sam Keen

You have not looked at the poor woman for years, for the simple reason that marriage makes things so certain. Marriage makes things so dead and dull. Marriage takes all surprise and wonder away. Marriage makes you take your wife for granted, your husband for granted. What is the need to look at your wife? She will be there tomorrow and the day after tomorrow and forever. You look at people when you know you may not be able to look at them again. Marriage kills; it makes something tremendously beautiful very ugly.

Osho

We have the greatest pre-nuptial agreement in the world. It's called love.

Gene Perret

What do marriage vows show? They show that you may want to separate sometime in the future. If there is love between two people, the thought of taking vows never arises. This is only an indication of the absence of love. People do not marry out of love; they marry out of fear. If there is love on this earth, marriage will become redundant. When love is not, marriage is a must. We make arrangements for that which we cannot do. We make rules for that which we are not sure of.

Osho

When a man opens the car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife.

Prince Philip

When marrying, ask yourself this question; Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.

Friedrich Nietzsche

Why does a woman work ten years to change a man's habits and then complain that he's not the man she married?

Barbra Streisand